Ryan Kwapniowski's FLP Portfolio

Definition of Leadership Recap

Leadership can be defined as the action of leading a group of people or an organization. But to me leadership means much more; it's the ability to inspire, motivate, communicate, and respect others while reaching toward a vision and leading others through example. It's a way of life, leadership isn't something that you can one day give up, you can give up a job position, you can give up a board member spot, but you could never give up who you are: a leader. People don't forget what you once were, you are forever held to the values of your leadership qualities. In my life, I don't plan on using just one approach to leadership. I feel as though I can relate to most all of the 7 different leadership styles and the best way to lead is to acknowledge each of the different styles and lead with a combination of each. 

As I look back at my time here at Creighton University, I almost feel that my definition of leadership has not change, but it has strengthened. First I had to understand myself. Why do I stand in front of people and talk to them? Why do I want my words to be heard? Why do I care? These questions were not only the key to understanding myself, but crucial to discerning what “leadership” meant to me. I stand in front of people and talk to them because I am not afraid. My thoughts are important no matter how wrong or right I am. I’m not scared of rejection or approval. When I talk to those people I want my words to linger, have my words be something to think about. I want to be both a muse and an adversary. To excite people’s minds and to ignite passion in all that they desire to achieve. Helping people attain their goals is what I want for them. That’s why I care. Ultimately, leadership isn’t something people mean to do. It’s a natural instinct people take up under certain circumstances.

Reflecting back, my life has changed in so many ways and all for the better. I couldn’t imagine where I would be without the Freshman Leadership Program and their guidance. It has taught me how to be the best Ryan I can be, to open my heart to community and love, and how to use my strengths to lead those around me. I’m not pre-med. I won’t be a doctor. I never served as the Vice President for Service and Philanthropy for my brotherhood, but I have done so much more. I am more because of this program. Life isn’t always what I expect it to be, but I’m along for the ride and never back down from any opportunity or challenge. I have found passions and explored different areas learning how to use my leadership skills and abilities in every field.